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Friday, May 13, 2011

Dating, anniversaries and fate

As I am running out of things to watch on television during the day, I found myself watching the Newlywed Game today. I stopped to think about what type of guy I want my girls to date. Kinda weird how the tables have turned. As I think back of all the guys I dated and knew my mom hated some (for good reason), I can't help but think I am in for a lot of trouble.

I believe in fate so I have to remind myself that no matter how hard I try to stop or encourage them to date certain guys, it will all work out in the end and they will end up with who they are meant to be with. I just know if they are anything like their mom, there will be a lot of heart-breaks and tears when they will think there life is over and then the next boy will come around and the cycle will start over again.

Luckily, I was smart enough to settle down with a good one (or at least I think so). Of course, Sunday was our 7 year anniversary and as most typical men, he forgot. I got a phone call from my mom telling me happy anniversary and Dusty's mom even sent a card. Yet, he forgot. At least, we were lucky to have Will and Abby babysit and we went to dinner by ourselves, the first time since the girls came home. It was nice to get out although there were some teenage girls running around the restaurant in very little clothing and I could just see the look of panic on Dusty's face as to what he will be dealing with in 13 years. I love Dusty more than words can describe and slightly feel bad for the girls because I know Dusty will be the most over-protective dad ever... and I love him for that.


The girls will find the perfect person for them. It is funny because everyone is meant to be with that one person and sometimes it just isn't obvious even to them. For example, I know two people who I know are going to end up together in life, but neither are ready to admit it quite yet. Call it stubborn or just circumstances, but it will happen. I am sure of it. In the meantime, I can't talk to either of them about it, but I know and someday, when they do end up together and decide to tell me, I will act surprised but I will go back to this post and tell them I knew all along because it was fate. Until then, I just wait quietly for them and wonder what fate has in store for my two angels.

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